Sobriety Secrets: 10 Things That Made Quitting Easier
The Ten Things Nobody Told Me Before I Quit — Not the Obvious Advice About Willpower and Meetings and One Day at a Time, but the Quiet, Counterintuitive, Often Surprising Discoveries That Reduced the Friction Between the Drinking Life and the Sober Life and Made the Crossing Between Them Survivable
Introduction: The Things That Should Have Been in the Manual
There should have been a manual. Not the recovery literature — the Big Book, the pamphlets, the worksheets, the intake paperwork. Those exist. Those are valuable. Those address the architecture of recovery — the framework, the philosophy, the clinical pathway from active use to sustained sobriety.
But there should have been another manual. A smaller one. A manual written not by the clinician or the researcher or the recovery organization but by the person who just did it — the person who is six months ahead of you, one year ahead of you, five years ahead of you, and who knows the things that the architecture does not contain. The practical things. The granular things. The things that do not appear in the literature because the literature addresses the disease and these things address the Tuesday.
The Tuesday. The specific, ordinary, unremarkable Tuesday that is the actual terrain of recovery. Not the crisis. Not the milestone. Not the meeting or the therapy session or the anniversary. The Tuesday — the day that contains the 3 PM craving, the 6 PM emptiness, the 9 PM boredom, the midnight insomnia. The Tuesday that the clinical framework describes in the aggregate and that the person in recovery experiences in the specific. The Tuesday that requires not the philosophy of recovery but the practical secrets that make the Tuesday survivable.
These are the secrets. Ten of them. They are not clinical. They are not philosophical. They are the practical, experiential, often counterintuitive discoveries that the people who are doing this — the people who are living the Tuesday — have made and wish someone had told them before they began.
They do not replace the clinical framework. They supplement it — the way the experienced traveler’s advice supplements the guidebook. The guidebook tells you the route. The experienced traveler tells you where to stop for water, which section is steeper than it looks, and what to do when the weather changes. The guidebook is essential. The traveler’s advice is the reason you make it to the destination.
The 10 Secrets
Secret 1: Tell More People Than You Think You Should
The instinct is secrecy. The instinct is: tell no one, or tell the minimum — the partner, the therapist, maybe the closest friend. Keep the circle small. Keep the vulnerability contained. Protect the image. Manage the narrative.
The instinct is wrong.
The secret is: tell more people. Tell the friend. Tell the colleague. Tell the family member. Tell the bartender at the restaurant you frequent. Tell the host of the party before you arrive. Tell the people whose knowledge of your sobriety transforms them from potential threats into potential allies.
The telling does three things the secrecy cannot. First, the telling eliminates the offer — the person who knows you are sober does not hand you a drink, does not suggest the bar, does not create the social pressure that the uninformed person innocently creates. Second, the telling creates accountability — the person who knows is the person who notices, who asks, who provides the external structure that the internal structure cannot yet provide alone. Third, the telling reduces the performance — the exhausting, constant, willpower-depleting performance of pretending to be someone who might drink but is choosing not to right now, the performance that consumes the energy that the actual sobriety requires.
The fear is judgment. The reality, in most cases, is support — the surprised but genuine response of the person who says: I did not know, and I am glad you told me, and what can I do. The fear anticipates the worst reaction. The telling typically produces the best one.
The exceptions are real. Some people will respond poorly. Some relationships will not survive the telling. These exceptions do not invalidate the principle. The principle is: the wider the circle of knowledge, the smaller the circle of performance. The smaller the circle of performance, the more energy is available for the actual work of staying sober.
Tell more people than you think you should. The telling is the secret that makes every other secret easier.
Secret 2: Replace the Ritual Before You Remove It
The substance was not just a chemical. The substance was a ritual — a sequence of behaviors, a sensory experience, a temporal marker, a transition between the states of the day. The evening pour was not just the alcohol entering the bloodstream. The evening pour was the sound of the liquid, the weight of the glass, the walk to the chair, the signal to the nervous system that the work day was over and the evening had begun. The ritual was as powerful as the chemical. In many cases, the ritual was more powerful — because the ritual was the behavioral architecture that the chemical inhabited, and the architecture, without a new inhabitant, becomes the void.
The secret: replace the ritual before you remove it. Do not remove the 6 PM ritual and leave 6 PM empty. Remove the 6 PM ritual and install the replacement simultaneously — the sparkling water in the wine glass, the herbal tea in the heavy mug, the walk that begins at the same time the pour used to begin, the bath that occupies the same temporal slot the first drink occupied.
The replacement does not need to replicate the chemical effect. The replacement needs to replicate the ritual function — the sensory engagement (something in the hand, something to taste, something to do), the temporal marking (this behavior signals the transition), and the reward signal (this moment is for you). The replacement that provides the function makes the absence of the chemical tolerable. The absence without the replacement makes the absence excruciating — because the void is not just the missing chemical. The void is the missing ritual. And the missing ritual is felt as the missing structure of the day.
Real Example: Danielle’s 6 PM Ceremony
Danielle, a 38-year-old nurse from Ohio, describes the ritual replacement at week two. “The wine was at 6 PM. Every night. I walked in the door. I put down the bag. I opened the cabinet. I poured the wine. The wine was the signal — the workday is over, the evening has begun, you are off duty. The wine was the ceremony that marked the transition.”
Danielle did not remove the ceremony. Danielle replaced it. “I bought a beautiful ceramic mug — heavy, warm when filled, satisfying to hold. I bought herbal tea that I actually liked — not the medicinal tea, the delicious tea. Honeybush and vanilla. I kept the ceremony: walk in the door, put down the bag, open the cabinet, fill the kettle, pour the tea, walk to the chair. The ceremony was identical. The chemical was different. The nervous system received the signal: the workday is over. The evening has begun. You are off duty.”
The replacement worked because the replacement addressed the function. “I did not miss the wine at 6 PM. I missed the wine at other times — the social events, the Friday nights, the unexpected cravings. But at 6 PM, the mug and the tea occupied the slot. The slot was full. The slot did not produce a craving because the slot was not empty.”
Secret 3: Make the First Week Absurdly Easy on Yourself
The first week of sobriety is the week the body revolts, the mind negotiates, the emotions destabilize, and the nervous system protests the removal of its primary regulator. The first week is the hardest week. The first week is also the week that the recovering person — in a burst of newly sober determination — decides to simultaneously quit drinking, start exercising, overhaul the diet, reorganize the house, repair the relationships, and rebuild the career.
The secret: do not do that. Do the opposite. Make the first week absurdly easy. Cancel everything you can cancel. Say no to everything you can say no to. Eat the food that comforts (the nutrition overhaul can wait until week three). Watch the show that soothes. Sleep as much as the body demands. Treat the first week the way you would treat a week of recovery from surgery — because the first week is a week of recovery from a neurological event, and the neurological event deserves the same respect.
The first week has one job: do not drink. The first week does not need to be productive, impressive, transformative, or educational. The first week needs to be survived. The survival is the accomplishment. The survival is the foundation. Everything else — the fitness, the nutrition, the relationships, the career — everything else is built on the foundation of the first week’s survival. Do not load the foundation before the concrete has set.
Secret 4: Sugar Is Not Your Enemy in Early Recovery
The craving for sugar in early recovery is not a character flaw. The craving for sugar is a neurochemical demand — the dopamine system, deprived of its primary stimulant, seeking the closest available substitute. Sugar activates the same reward pathway that alcohol activated, and the depleted system, desperate for any stimulation, demands it with an intensity that can feel alarming.
The secret: let the sugar happen. Not permanently. Not in quantities that produce a new health crisis. But in early recovery (the first three to six months), the sugar craving is the body’s attempt to manage the dopamine deficit with a substance that is dramatically less destructive than the one it replaced. The ice cream at 9 PM is not ideal. The ice cream at 9 PM is also not a relapse. The ice cream at 9 PM is the nervous system selecting the least destructive option from the limited menu of dopamine-producing substances available to it.
The sugar craving typically diminishes between months four and eight as the dopamine system recalibrates and the natural reward sensitivity returns. The person who fights the sugar craving in month two is fighting a neurochemical demand with willpower — and the willpower, already consumed by the primary project of not drinking, may not have the surplus to manage the secondary battle. Let the sugar happen. Fight one war at a time. The sugar war can wait. The sobriety war cannot.
Secret 5: Have an Answer Ready Before You Need It
The question will come. In the social setting, at the dinner, at the party, at the work event, at the family gathering — the question will come. “What are you drinking?” “Can I get you a glass of wine?” “Why aren’t you drinking?” “Are you on medication?” “Are you pregnant?” The question will come, and the question will come when the social pressure is highest and the cognitive resources for managing the question are lowest.
The secret: prepare the answer before the question arrives. The answer does not need to be the truth. The answer does not need to be a lie. The answer needs to be a sentence — a single, rehearsed, deliverable sentence that resolves the question without producing a conversation.
Options that work: “I’m not drinking tonight.” “I’m on a health kick.” “I’m driving.” “I’m good with water, thanks.” “I’m taking a break.” The sentence is spoken. The question is resolved. The conversation moves on. The social pressure, which was building toward the explanation the person was dreading, dissipates because the explanation was unnecessary. The sentence handled it.
The advanced answer for the person who is ready: “I don’t drink.” Three words. Present tense. Identity statement. Not a temporary condition. Not an explanation. An identity. The three words are the most powerful answer because the three words require no follow-up. The person who says “I don’t drink” has ended the conversation the way the person who says “I don’t eat shellfish” has ended the conversation — with a statement of personal fact that requires no justification.
Prepare the answer. Rehearse the answer. Deliver the answer without hesitation when the moment arrives. The preparation eliminates the social anxiety that the unprepared moment produces, and the eliminated anxiety is the eliminated trigger that the eliminated trigger prevents.
Real Example: Tom’s Two Sentences
Tom, a 50-year-old electrician from Pennsylvania, prepared his answer at week one. “My sponsor said: the question is coming. Prepare the answer. Do not wait for the question and then try to figure out what to say while your face is turning red and everyone is watching.”
Tom prepared two sentences — one for casual settings, one for direct questions. “Casual: ‘I’m good with water, thanks.’ Direct: ‘I don’t drink.’ Two sentences. Rehearsed in the truck. Spoken aloud. The speaking aloud matters — the mouth needs to know how the sentence feels. The sentence that has been spoken ten times in the truck is the sentence that arrives easily at the party.”
Tom deployed the casual sentence at week three. “A job site barbecue. The foreman walked over with a cooler of beer. Offered me one. I said: ‘I’m good with water, thanks.’ He said: ‘You sure?’ I said: ‘Yeah, I’m good.’ He shrugged. He walked away. The entire interaction was eight seconds. Eight seconds. I had spent four days dreading those eight seconds.”
Tom deployed the direct sentence at month two. “My brother asked at Sunday dinner. Point blank: ‘Why aren’t you drinking?’ I said: ‘I don’t drink.’ He looked at me. He nodded. He said: ‘Okay.’ The conversation was over. The sentence — three words, rehearsed, delivered without hesitation — the sentence was sufficient. The sentence did not produce the interrogation I feared. The sentence produced the nod.”
Secret 6: Play the Tape Forward
The craving presents the drink in isolation — the cold beer, the warm wine, the satisfying first sip. The craving is a photograph: one frame, one moment, one sensation. The photograph is appealing because the photograph is incomplete. The photograph shows the first drink. The photograph does not show the fourth drink, the 2 AM regret, the 7 AM shame, the destroyed morning, the broken promise, the reset of the counter, the look on the face of the person who trusted you.
The secret: play the tape forward. When the craving presents the photograph, press play. Let the movie run — not to the first drink but through the first drink to the second, the third, the inevitable escalation that the first drink has always produced. Let the movie run to the morning after. Let the movie run to the conversation with the sponsor. Let the movie run to the next meeting where you announce the relapse. Let the movie run to the face of the child who noticed.
The tape does not lie. The tape is not theoretical. The tape is biographical — your biography, your history, your specific, documented, repeatedly demonstrated pattern. The pattern has never included the one drink that remained one drink. The pattern has always included the one drink that became the evening that became the morning that became the reset. The tape contains the evidence. Play the tape. The craving cannot survive the tape because the craving depends on the photograph and the tape reveals what the photograph conceals.
Secret 7: Move Your Body When the Craving Hits
The craving is not only a mental event. The craving is a physical event — a neurological activation that produces physical sensations: the tightness in the chest, the restlessness in the legs, the agitation in the hands, the specific physical urgency that the mind interprets as the need for the substance but that the body is experiencing as unprocessed activation energy.
The secret: move. When the craving arrives, move the body. Not to the gym. Not for a workout. For the movement — the walk around the block, the push-ups on the floor, the climb up and down the stairs, the five-minute burst of any physical activity that metabolizes the activation energy and completes the stress cycle that the craving initiated.
The movement works because the movement addresses the physical dimension that the cognitive tools (playing the tape forward, calling the sponsor, reciting the reasons) do not. The cognitive tools address the mind’s interpretation of the craving. The movement addresses the body’s experience of the craving. The combination — the cognitive tool and the physical movement deployed simultaneously — addresses the craving comprehensively. The mind is reframed. The body is discharged. The craving, addressed at both levels, diminishes with a speed that either tool alone cannot produce.
The movement does not need to be vigorous. The movement needs to be immediate. The craving that is met with movement within sixty seconds is the craving that peaks and subsides in five to ten minutes. The craving that is met with stillness is the craving that builds, escalates, and consumes the thirty minutes of cognitive negotiation that the movement could have prevented.
Secret 8: Change the Scenery When the Walls Close In
The environment is a trigger — not in the abstract but in the specific. The specific chair where the drinking happened. The specific room where the evening was spent. The specific lighting, the specific sounds, the specific sensory context that the brain has associated, through thousands of repetitions, with the substance. The environmental cues activate the craving pathways below conscious awareness — the person does not think “this room makes me want to drink.” The person feels the craving and does not know why. The why is the room.
The secret: when the craving arrives and the source is unclear, change the room. Leave the chair. Leave the house. Walk outside. Drive to the coffee shop. Go to the meeting. Go to the grocery store. Go anywhere that is not the environment the brain has associated with the substance.
The environmental change breaks the cue-craving link by removing the cue. The new environment — the coffee shop, the sidewalk, the grocery aisle — does not contain the associations. The craving, deprived of the environmental reinforcement, weakens. The weakening is often dramatic — the craving that was a seven in the living room is a three in the parking lot. The craving did not resolve itself. The environment changed. The environment was the accelerant. Remove the accelerant and the fire diminishes.
The secret is especially powerful in early recovery, when the cue-craving associations are strongest and the cognitive resources for overriding them are weakest. In early recovery, the feet are a more reliable coping mechanism than the mind. Move the feet. The mind will follow.
Real Example: Keisha’s Kitchen Escape
Keisha, a 41-year-old teacher from Maryland, discovered the environmental secret at month one. “The craving arrived every evening in the kitchen. Same time. Same place. I would be washing dishes or preparing tomorrow’s lunch and the craving would arrive — not gradually, not building. It arrived complete. Full intensity. In the kitchen.”
Keisha initially fought the craving in the kitchen. “I used the breathing. I used the tape-forward technique. I called Patricia. The tools helped but the craving persisted — reduced but persistent, a four out of ten that would not go to zero.”
Keisha’s sponsor suggested the environmental change. “She said: leave the kitchen. I said: I am in the middle of the dishes. She said: leave the dishes. Walk outside. Stand on the porch. Count to sixty. Then decide.”
Keisha left the kitchen. “I walked to the porch. I stood outside. The air was cool. And the craving — the craving that had been a persistent four in the kitchen — the craving was a one on the porch. Not because the air was magic. Because the kitchen was the cue. The kitchen at 8 PM was the environment where the drinking had happened for twelve years. Every tile, every light fixture, every angle of the counter was encoded with the association. The porch had no association. The porch was neutral. The craving, deprived of the cue, collapsed.”
Keisha restructured the evening. “I moved the evening preparation to 6 PM — before the craving window. The kitchen at 8 PM became the room I did not enter. Instead, the porch at 8 PM became the room where the tea was drunk and the evening call was made. The environmental redesign eliminated the nightly craving. Not managed it. Eliminated it. The craving needed the kitchen. I stopped giving it the kitchen.”
Secret 9: Celebrate the Small Wins Deliberately
The recovery culture celebrates the milestones — the thirty days, the ninety days, the six months, the year. The milestones are important. The milestones are also infrequent — the ninety-day chip is preceded by eighty-nine days without a chip, and the eighty-nine days contain a thousand small victories that are not celebrated, not acknowledged, not used as the evidence they are.
The secret: celebrate the small wins. Deliberately. Daily. The social event navigated without drinking — celebrate it. The craving surfed and survived — celebrate it. The morning that was clear — celebrate it. The conversation that was honest — celebrate it. The boundary that was held — celebrate it. The celebration does not need to be external (though external celebration is fine — the text to the sponsor, the entry in the journal, the small reward). The celebration needs to be internal — the deliberate, conscious acknowledgment that a thing was accomplished, a difficulty was navigated, a day was survived.
The deliberate celebration serves the identity. The identity of the recovering person is constructed from evidence — and the evidence is not only the annual milestone. The evidence is the daily accumulation of the small wins that, uncelebrated, go unregistered, and unregistered, fail to contribute to the identity they are building. The celebrated small win is the registered small win. The registered small win is the evidence. The evidence is the identity. The identity is the recovery.
Secret 10: Accept That It Gets Easier — and Then Different
The early recovery mantra is: it gets easier. The mantra is true. The cravings decrease in frequency and intensity. The social navigation becomes less effortful. The mornings become less novel and more normal. The nervous system stabilizes. The toolkit becomes habitual. The life assembles. It gets easier.
The secret is the second half: and then different.
The early challenges (the acute craving, the social pressure, the physical withdrawal, the identity crisis) give way to the later challenges (the complacency, the boredom, the “is this it?” plateau, the subtle drift away from the practices that produced the stability). The later challenges are less dramatic than the early challenges. The later challenges are equally dangerous — because the later challenges are subtle, and the subtle threat is the threat that is not recognized as a threat until the damage is underway.
The secret is the preparation for the transition — the awareness that the easier does not mean the finished. The easier means the different. The different requires different tools, different attention, different vigilance. The person who navigated the acute phase with the crisis toolkit must navigate the maintenance phase with the daily toolkit. The person who survived the craving must now survive the ordinary. The ordinary is a different kind of hard — not the dramatic, visible, crisis-hard of early recovery but the quiet, invisible, erosion-hard of the life that is no longer in crisis and is therefore no longer receiving the crisis-level support.
Accept that it gets easier. Prepare for the different that follows. The different is where the decades are built — not in the drama of the early days but in the quiet, unglamorous, daily practice of the maintenance that the easier made possible and that the different requires.
Real Example: Marcus’s Two-Year Realization
Marcus, a 45-year-old contractor from Detroit, describes the transition at year two. “The first year was hard in the way everyone describes — the cravings, the social pressure, the identity reconstruction, the emotional flooding. Hard in the obvious way. Hard in the way that produces sympathy and support and the sense that you are doing something extraordinary.”
The second year was different. “The cravings were rare. The social pressure was managed. The identity was forming. The emotional flooding had subsided into emotional weather — variable but not catastrophic. The second year was not hard in the obvious way. The second year was hard in the quiet way.”
The quiet hard. “The meetings felt less urgent. The morning routine felt less essential. The sponsor calls felt less necessary. The practices that had been the infrastructure of the first year felt like the scaffolding of a building that was already standing. The thought arrived: you can remove the scaffolding now.”
Marcus did not remove the scaffolding. “My sponsor — who has twelve years — my sponsor said: the scaffolding thought is the most dangerous thought in recovery. The building is standing because the scaffolding is there. Remove the scaffolding and the building stands for a while — weeks, months, maybe a year. And then the building encounters the storm it cannot handle without the scaffolding. And the building falls.”
Marcus maintained the practices. “I maintained them not because they felt necessary but because the feeling of unnecessary is the symptom, not the diagnosis. The diagnosis is: the practices are working so well that they feel unnecessary. The practices feel unnecessary because the practices are working. Remove the practices and the feeling changes. Keep the practices and the building stands. I kept the practices.”
20 Powerful and Uplifting Quotes About Practical Wisdom, Preparation, and the Unglamorous Work of Building a Sober Life
1. “The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” — Nelson Mandela
2. “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
3. “Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.” — J.K. Rowling
4. “Success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out.” — Robert Collier
5. “You don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step.” — Martin Luther King Jr.
6. “Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” — Robert Brault
7. “The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
8. “In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” — Albert Einstein
9. “You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously.” — Sophia Bush
10. “Be the person you needed when you were younger.” — Ayesha Siddiqi
11. “The most beautiful people I’ve known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.” — Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
12. “It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.” — Aristotle
13. “The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The second best time is now.” — Chinese Proverb
14. “You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” — Marcus Aurelius
15. “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” — Will Durant
16. “Recovery is not a race. You don’t have to feel guilty if it takes you longer than you thought it would.” — Unknown
17. “Recovery is about progression, not perfection.” — Unknown
18. “The practices feel unnecessary because the practices are working.” — Unknown
19. “Asking for help is not giving up. It is refusing to give up.” — Unknown
20. “The comeback is always stronger than the setback.” — Unknown
Picture This
Close your eyes for a moment and really let yourself feel this.
You are at a gathering. The kind of gathering that used to require the substance — the social event, the dinner, the party, the function where the people are holding glasses and the conversation is flowing and the evening is unfolding the way evenings unfold when alcohol is present and you are not drinking it.
You are holding a glass. The glass contains sparkling water with lime. The glass is cold. The lime is bright. The glass feels normal in your hand — not conspicuous, not performative, not the neon sign you feared it would be. The glass is a glass. The people around you do not notice the contents.
Someone approaches. The question arrives — the question you prepared for, the question you rehearsed in the car, the question that used to produce the spike of anxiety that used to produce the craving that used to produce the drink. The question: “Can I get you something from the bar?”
You smile. The sentence arrives — rehearsed, smooth, delivered without the hesitation that would have invited the follow-up. “I’m good, thanks.” Two words and a smile. The person nods. The person moves on. The interaction lasted four seconds. The preparation lasted four days. The preparation was worth it — because the four seconds were effortless, and the effortless four seconds are the evidence that the secrets work.
The evening continues. You are present. You are clear. You are holding the sparkling water and the conversation is real and the laughter is genuine and the memory — every word, every joke, every moment — the memory is being encoded at full fidelity because the brain that is encoding it is unimpaired.
The evening ends. You drive home. The drive is clear. The arrival is peaceful. The morning will be clean. The secrets — the ritual replacement, the prepared answer, the environmental awareness, the small celebration — the secrets carried you through the evening the way the substance used to carry you through the evening. But the secrets carried you through clearly. The substance carried you through blindly.
The clear is better.
The clear was always going to be better.
The secrets just made the clear reachable.
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If these ten secrets gave you the practical, experiential, Tuesday-level advice that the clinical framework does not contain — or if they gave you the specific tools for the specific moments that the specific day produces — please take a moment to share them with someone whose Tuesday needs them.
Think about the people in your life. Maybe you know someone in the first week who is trying to simultaneously quit drinking and overhaul their entire life — who needs to hear that the first week has one job, and the one job is enough.
Maybe you know someone dreading the social event — who is lying awake rehearsing the explanation they do not need to give because a two-word sentence would handle it.
Maybe you know someone whose kitchen is a trigger — who is fighting the craving in the room that is producing the craving and who does not yet know that leaving the room is the most powerful coping skill available.
So go ahead — copy the link and send it to that person. Text it to the one who needs the secrets. Email it to the one whose Tuesday needs the manual. Share it in your communities and anywhere people are navigating the practical, granular, unglamorous terrain of the sober life.
The secrets are not secrets because they are hidden. The secrets are secrets because nobody thinks to tell them. Until now. Tell them. Share them. The Tuesday is waiting.
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The secrets are not secrets because they are hidden. The secrets are secrets because nobody thinks to tell them. Now you know. Use them.
